If your boyfriend decided to break it off with you it was because his attraction for you was at an all time low. It does not matter why he broke up with you. The bottom line is that your attraction quotient (AQ) where he is concerned is too low and in order for you to get him to want you back, you have to increase your AQ one hundredfold and I am going to show you how to do that.
If right after the break up you made your ex-boyfriend feel like he was the best thing since sliced bread by calling and begging him to take you back and stalking him night and day, apart from appearing like someone who should be sedated, you appeared even less attractive to your ex. Every time you picked up the phone and acted in a desperate manner, your AQ dropped a little lower.
At this point, there is no way that your ex-boyfriend can see you as the vibrant, attractive lady that you are. What else can you do then?
Well, let’s start with what you do know. Something killed or at least put a big dent in the attraction that your ex-boyfriend had for you. What was it? This is something that you yourself will have to determine but once you find your answer, with a little help you will know exactly how to proceed.
Even though this is a very hard time for you, and I do understand that, you have to find a way to become more attractive in the eyes of your ex.
So how do you do this?
You do that by giving your ex-boyfriend the “social proof” that you are being desired by others. He must think that other guys find you attractive. Whether or not you are really being pursued by other guys does not really matter at this point. All you have to do is make your ex think that is not your only option.
The moment that your ex thinks that he is your only option you have you have just become less attractive in his eyes and this will continue to cause problems for you and drive your ex-boyfriend further away until you change the situation to YOUR advantage.
The first thing you have to do is to make yourself look and feel more attractive in any way possible. Not only will you look attractive to others but to your ex as well if you put yourself into your ex’s line of sight.
Here is what I want you to do. Go out and get a new look or do something that is guaranteed to get his attention and allow him to see you in a different light. You want to perhaps change your hairstyle or start dressing differently. The key here though is that you still have to make sure that you are comfortable in your own skin.
Whatever changes you make have to enhance you and improve your overall confidence level. If your confidence is high enough you become infinitely more attractive. When you become more attractive you automatically attract other potential suitors as well as your ex.
The next thing that I want you to do is to get out and about and in your ex’s line of sight. Your main objective here is to get out there and have fun with your new confidence level and your new look.
As you are out and about having fun, looking and feeling good, hanging out with friends and really having a good time, perhaps even eventually going to the same places where your ex-boyfriend is sure to be but NOT caring either way if he talks to you or not, guess what…you now become more attractive because you are happy, comfortable, confident but yet you appear unobtainable and this is the position you want to be in!
Getting to the point I described above is not easy at all but I can show you how to get there so that you become more attractive in your ex-boyfriend’s eyes. That is what will get him to turn his attention back to you again! Click on the link below to visit my blog and join in the fun!